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Win Her Heart Back Tips

win-heart-backOn the off chance that you resemble me, you may have for all intents and purposes hauled all you hair out attempting to make sense of how to win her heart back. On the off chance that there’s one thing I’ve learned as the years progressed, it’s that ladies are touchy, delicate, complex, and yes… difficult to get it. You don’t have to see how a lady thinks to recover her. You have to see how to make her trust you with her heart once more.

Is it conceivable to get back together with an ex? Obviously it is. The vital inquiry is, HOW would I be able to get back together with my ex?

The answer is not simple because people are different and every situation is different. Sometimes a simple text message saying I LOVE YOU in all caps is enough to make her come back to you. It’s worked for me before. If you are lucky enough for that to work, then you are lucky.

It could take a lot more than a simple text message to get back together with your ex

Signs That She Likes You

she-likes-youHow would you know whether a girls likes you without a doubt? This is an inquiry that has tormented man for quite a long time. Ladies are muddled, which makes the answer troublesome. There are regular signs that most ladies demonstrate that can let you know that she is into you. Here are some dating tips for men that will help you perceive these signs.

# Remember Details About You She will remember minor details about you because she is interested in you. She may surprise you on your birthday with a small gift, a card, or a phone call. Return the favor, try to remember details about her to let her know you feel the same way about her.

# Her Smile and Vibes Does she smile every time she looks at you? This genuine smile that makes you smile back can make your day. Chances are, she has a lot to say to you, but won’t say anything. Look into her eyes, they will tell you everything you need to know. This is one of the fastest falling in love signs.

# Unusually Helpful

Get A Boyfriend Tips

get-a-boyfriend# Be Confident with yourself. Be comfortable with who you are. Don’t worry about your imperfections. These are what make you interesting. The more you worry or appear insecure, the less likely you are to be seen as attractive to guys.

# Make an effort to look your best. Looks aren’t everything, but at least try. Wear nice clothes that enhance your features. Not too tight. Don’t go too heavy on the makeup; instead try to enhance your natural beauty.

Don’t jump into a romantic relationship too quickly. Try getting to know each other as friends first; you never know how your relationship might end up.

If you find a guy that you like, be bold if you dare and ask him out. You can ask him to do something casual such as go get a cup of coffee or ice cream. A more formal date such as lunch, dinner, or a movie is ok too.

Don’t put people down, don’t complain or whine, and definitely don’t gossip about other people. Guy’s consider these all to

Why It Is Important For You To Break-Up On A Valentine’s Day

It is a well-known fact that it is the peer pressure that acts on you on an occasion like Valentine’s Day. And trust me this is true no matter whether you agree to it or not. But let me tell you a little secret that when the world around you is taking about love, roses and gifts breaking up with your girlfriend wouldn’t be that depressing. If you are not convinced, read on, it will be the perfect day of celebration.


As is customary Valentine’s Day is the day when she would be expecting best valentine gift, fancy dinner and a lot more things from you. It is the best time to break-up, trust me what she is after is your big fat wallet and there is absolutely no quotient of love here.

Bring twist, rather than sending valentine gift online in India to the person whom you don’t love. The best thing to do would be to send a gift to your mother for being such a fantastic person. You can even send gift to any of your other family member.

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Avoid These when Writing Online Dating Profile

Knowing how to accomplish something keeping in mind the end goal to finish the best result is imperative. Yet, that isn’t sufficient in itself; it doesn’t stop there. It’s additionally critical to comprehend what you ought NOT do, what missteps to maintain a strategic distance from. One of the best ways to deal with achieve that objective is discovering exactly what blunders others have made so you can avoid making those exceptionally same mistakes.

That is especially valid for composing fruitful web dating profiles. Heaps of individuals avoid the errors and succeed. You should be one of these.

Three of the most prevalent mistakes that folks make with writing online dating profiles are listed below:

#  Inappropriate profile photos

You will find this important since your profile photo is the first things people see when browsing your profile. In order to avoid this issue you will need to make sure your photos are current and flattering. Don’t use photos where you can clearly see that you have cropped out your ex! Beware of the image you are sending if your photo has you looking glassy eyed with a drink in each hand. Also, people are

Attract Men?, Here Its Tips

Are you looking for ways to attract men? You see this cute guy across the room and you hope that you would get his attention. But there are other women eyeing him too. How on earth are you going to compete?

# Eye contact

You’re going to have to clue him in and let him know that you’re interested in him. That means that you’re going to have to have eye contact. This doesn’t mean looking at him then looking away. You need prolonged eye contact if you want to send him the message that you like him. Don’t keep looking away when he glances at you. You have to be a little bit more aggressive than that.

# Let out your feisty side

All women have it in them no matter how shy they are. You may think you’re just a mouse but deep down, there’s that fierceness in you and you need to let it out. If you’re feisty then it means that you don’t let men control you. And if he can’t have you that easily then you’re going to be a challenge to him and that would peak his interest. This doesn’t

Meet Women Tips

While online dating apps can and do lead to long-term relationships, sitting around swiping on your phone isn’t exactly the most effective way to meet women. In fact, new research shows that—surprise, surprise—we millennials are spending more time playing with our phones than we are actually going out and, well, having sex. In other words, put your phone away (once you’ve finished reading this article), and take a look at what the experts have to say on how to meet women.

The best way to meet women : Through a friend

The next time your buddy tries to set you up on a blind date with his girlfriend’s ex-roommate…you may actually want to take him up on that offer. According to a 2015 survey by, meeting your significant other through a mutual friend is surprisingly common—39 percent of the 2,373 people surveyed did—even in the golden age of Tinder.

Meeting someone through a friend just makes sense, especially if you’re looking for something beyond a one-night stand, says sex therapist and relationship expert Kat Van Kirk, author of The Married Sex Solution. “A friend-of-a-friend will have more in common with you than someone off

People Says about Finding Time for Each Other

Being a partner, parent, working, caring and doing all the other things we do means finding time to be with your partner can often be problematic. Lots of couples find that couple time can be very hard to find. Below you will find some quotes from other couples who struggle to find the time to be together.

Tracy, Bristol
“That’s the thing – we all have a wish list of all these things we would do if you had time. But I know just at the moment that if I make that time I would start feeling guilty about taking some time for myself. I just keep on, and I’ll think about the future when it comes along.”

Julie, South Wales
“We don’t really have that much time together any more, my son goes to bed at 9, and my partner comes in at 8, and now his daughter is here we get no time together now at all.”

Ellen, South London
“Work, sleep, cooking, cleaning, shopping, school run, doing the garden, swimming lessons, ballet lessons, brownies, seeing friends, running the house, organising stuff, paying bills, laundry, hospital appointments, clinic, checking in on my mum, the

About Affairs and Jealousy

Did you know that just over 20% of divorces in 2005 cited infidelity as the proven fact? Some couples are able to deal with an infidelity, but others find it harder. Whatever the circumstances, finding out that your partner is having an affair can be hurtful and painful for all those involved and the fallout can be difficult to deal with.

Below you will find some interesting facts about infidelity and public attitudes towards it.

What does the general public think about fidelity?

  • Over 80% of cohabiting, married, divorced and remarried people rated faithfulness as very important for a successful marriage. (1)
  • 84% of the population think that “extra marital sex is mostly or always wrong”. (2)

How many people have affairs?

  • In 2001 on average 14.6% of men and 9% of women aged between 16 and 44 in a relationship had had concurrent sexual partners in the previous year. (3)
  • In 2006, 21% of divorces awarded to men cited adultery as the proven fact and 18% of divorces granted to women cited adultery. (4)


  1. You Gov. (2007). Marriage and Divorce YouGov / Sunday Times Survey Results. Available from
  2. Duncan, S.

Leave or Not ?

Recently in my practice I have found myself sitting across from a number of very bright, educated, and successful women who are desperately trying to decide if they should stay or leave their marriages or long-standing relationships.  What makes this particularly poignant is that in every instance, there are objective indicators of their partners’ emotional abuse and behavioral acts of betrayal.  And yet, the decision to “give him one more chance,” or “figure out what else they can do to make the relationship work” dominates all of their therapy sessions.

And their partners’ actions are not simple or one time breaches of trust.  Chronic cheating, both through on-line sexting and chat rooms, as well as using the joint credit card to spend a week-end in the Bahamas with a long-term mistress.  Years of   cruel verbal putndown. “You’re getting fat,” “You look like my grandmother when you wear that outfit,” “I’m not sure if I want to stay married to you.” Years of condescending eye rolls and exasperated sighs, not showing up for events that are important, withholding financial support or emotional nurturance, minimizing accomplishments, pervasive criticism and judgment.  In the world of mental health and therapy these

Express Feeling without Fight

The importance of expressing your feelings in an intimate relationship shouldn’t be underestimated. Being honest about how you feel allows for bonding and emotional closeness, which improves every aspect of your relationship; withholding how you feel creates distance and disconnection. But, even knowing how important emotional expression is for a relationship, many people fear and avoid expressing their emotions—especially when they are upset. The most commonly cited reason for this is “I don’t want to cause a fight.”

How do you let someone know you’re upset or unhappy without causing a fight? Below are three steps that can help you more effectively express yourself.

# Use “I feel” statements without justifying them. Expressing emotions can make you feel vulnerable and, as a result, most people are naturally inclined to want to justify their feelings by blaming the other person in some way: “I feel upset because of what you said and did.” But blaming the other person by stating that it is his/her fault for how you feel makes them defensive and stops them from hearing what you are saying.

Instead, try to state how you feel—put a period after the emotion and wait for a response. I feel annoyed. I feel frustrated.

Keep Romantic in Relationships

There’s no great mystery in understanding why couples become less sexually active as their relationship matures: As passionate love mellows into a relationship characterized by intimacy and companionship, long-term couples will almost certainly have sex less frequently. The demands of daily life and the reality of taking care of a household mean that many couples devote less time exclusively to their physical relationship.

But it’s an issue worth addressing: We may prefer not to think about our parents or grandparents having sex, but plenty of older couples maintain physical intimacy in their later years. There are real benefits in continuing sexual activity throughout life, as shown by researchers studying sexual life expectancy. If for no other reason than to support your long-term mental and physical well-being, figuring out the formula for staying sexually active with your long-term partner is a good idea.

To answer the question of what keeps the sexual spark alive in long-term relationships, University of Toronto psychologist Amy Muise and her collaborators (2013) studied 44 couples who were in relationships lasting from 3 to 39 years. On average, these couples had been together approximately 11 years. All were living together; about two-thirds were

Are You Falling in Love?

You might puzzle over your own feelings, and wonder what the person you’re dating really thinks of you. Your own emotions may be difficult to fully decipher, and trying to categorize them as falling in love or as just a passing attraction can be tricky. Is what you’re feeling the real thing, or are you just prone to feeling this way and need to be careful moving forward?

here are some questions to help you sort it out:

# Are you highly motivated to be with this person?

Transitioning from a casual relationship to falling in love may have a chemical underpinning: Evidence shows that dopamine-rich areas of the brain are involved in the beginning stages of love (Fisher, Aron, & Brown, 2005); these areas are considered part of the brain’s “reward system” and serve as highly motivational. Once couples are “in love” for a while, the intensity of these emotions tends to decline and different areas of the brain, potentially more closely linked to attachment, become more active.

# Are you investing more in this person?

One hallmark of successful couples is investment—all the time, energy, emotions, etc. that people put into

Break up Tips

# Do it only face to face

Humans evolved to communicate face to face, which provides some built-in consolations. We may experience many nonverbal cues that reassure us of our essential lovability—the quick touch on the arm that says you’re still valued even as the relationship ends. Anything less than face-to-face sends a distressing message: “You don’t matter.”

Some dumpers might think that delivering the news by email, text, or even a Facebook statement is less cruel than directly speaking the truth. But remote modes of delivery actually inflict psychic scars on the dumpee that can impede future partnerships. “When you don’t get any explanation, you spend a huge amount of time trying to figure out what’s wrong with you,” says eLove’s Paul Falzone. “And you’ll be hesitant about entering another relationship.”

Being on the receiving end of remote dumping can leave us stuck in emotional limbo, says University of Chicago neuroscientist John Cacioppo. “The pain of losing a meaningful relationship can be especially searing in the absence of direct social contact.” With no definitive closure, we’re left wondering what the heck happened, which can lead to the kind of endless rumination that often leads to

Guide to Communicate Better

Here are 6 ways to improve emotional communication and deepen your relationship, without ever even mentioning “the F Word” (feelings) :

# Make small talk. You may think talking about a TV show or even the weather is far from connecting emotionally, but these supposedly insignificant details are actually more likely to improve your close emotional ties to your partner than a so-called “deep” discussion of your feelings. American psychoanalyst Harry Stack Sullivan developed an approach that he called “detailed inquiry,” in which he suggested that therapists gather information about all parts of a client’s life. In those tiny details, Sullivan believed, could be found clues to who a person is. More recently, John Gottman and Janice Driver researched this idea with a group of married couples and found that “the mundane and often fleeting moments” that are part of a couple’s daily life have a greater impact on the health of the relationship than do apparently emotionally meaningful and serious conversations. (I wrote about this in an earlier post, and in my book, Daydreaming: Unlock the Creative Power of Your Mind.)

Bored when your partner recounts the details of a plumbing problem or the movie he

Find Lasting Love Tips

The beginning of a new relationship is scary because you don’t really know the person you’re dating, so you can’t be sure what you’re going to get. In other words, you’re investing in a relationship based purely on faith, or your hope that this new person will be good for you. But let’s all admit what a risk it is to start falling in love! Can you imagine taking a thousand dollars and putting it into a stock that you don’t know much about? If you only knew a few details about the company you were investing in, you’d probably decide not to invest in it. Why? Because it would feel too risky.

Yet in relationships, the pull toward a new lover is so strong that it feels as if you really don’t have a choice at all. If you like the person and want to get to know them better, you have no choice but to proceed. The stakes feel so high because you can end up attaching pretty quickly to someone new, even though you don’t know that person well enough to know if it’s truly safe to trust him or her. The reality is

Happy and Healthy Relationships Secret

Nature abhors a vacuum, or so they say. Similarly, it seems that human beings abhor contradiction, particularly in the context of relationships. We like to package our feelings as positive or negative, believing that contradictory feelings cannot and should not co-exist. In approaching relationships, we use the word but to connect contradictory feelings, as if the positive should eliminate the negative and vice versa. In fact, for a relationship to succeed, “and,” NOT “but,” must be the approach we take when linking the inconsistent feelings that are at the heart of all relationships. Visit Obat pembesar Penis for your Relationship vitality

All relationships resolve in contradiction. Why then is it so difficult for us to accept contradictory feelings inside ourselves? Unfortunately, we are trained to believe that consistency is the basic nature of all things, that there is an answer to all questions.  One answer. “Is it good or bad?” “Is it true or false?” “Is it right or wrong?” We like simple, clean, straightforward answers. If it’s both, simultaneously, then we are in for a more complicated consideration, a more unsettling resolution. use herbal Pembesar Penis for your vitality

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About All Women Lie

I stood on the stage looking out at a sea of beautiful, successful but single women. All were there to find love. As I talked about the science of love, I stopped, took a pause, stood up straight, looked from one side to the other, and then uttered, “All women lie.”

I then watched as these lovely faces transform. One woman tilted her head as her mouth gaped. Another’s brow wrinkled in confusion while a few eyes narrowed in contempt. These were educated women who just paid good money to hear me speak and I was calling each and every one of them a liar. The air of “how dare she” wafted up to the stage.

As I waited a moment for effect, I then added, “And they don’t even know it.” I paused again to allow this last statement to sink in. A few of the scowls slowly turned into intrigue and one audience member let out a sigh of relief. Women began to shift in their chairs leaning forward as if to say, “I’m listening.”

I then asked, “How many of you would like to date a nice, sweet, kind man?” Hands started

Relationships and Your Health

ew research has provided more evidence that relationships affect health (read our previous posts on this subject here).1 The researchers examined data from four large-scale studies that collectively followed thousands of Americans over time. One of the studies followed adolescents, another followed young-to-mid-adults (aged 25-64), and the last two followed older adults (aged 50+), resulting in more than 14,000 participants across the lifespan. Each study measured various aspects of individuals’ social relationships, such as social support (e.g., reliability of family members), social integration (e.g., frequency of contact with other people), and social strain (e.g., frequency of criticism from friends). Each study also included health outcome measures such as blood pressure, waist circumference, and body mass. These outcomes are associated with how the body responds to stress and are predictive of disease and mortality. please use Vimax for good your relationship

Overall, the researchers found that the more socially integrated people were (i.e., the more they socialized with others and different kinds of others) and the better quality their relationships (i.e., with lots of social support and little social strain), the better their health throughout the lifespan. read more about Vimax Asli for make you happy

Saying ‘I love You’

Societal gender norms suggest that women should be most concerned with declarations of love, especially during the early, uncertain phase of relationships. After all, who are all those romantic comedies and chick flick movies marketed toward? But recent research demonstrates that in fact, it’s the men who are more likely to say “I love you” first in relationships.1 Not only that, but hearing “I love you” from a romantic partner for the first time makes men even happier than it makes women. And although this may not jive with gender stereotypes, it makes a lot of sense from an evolutionary perspective.

Because of the differences in our biological make-up, women take nine months each time they wish to reproduce, whereas men can take only a few minutes. According to parental investment theory, this difference makes women a lot choosier when it comes to mates: not only do they want to ensure that they pick a partner with good genes, but they also want to end up with a partner who’s likely to stick around to help with child rearing.2

From this perspective, it makes sense that men would have evolved a willingness to profess their love